STOP SETTLING FOR CRUMBS AND CALLING IT LOVE…

Use This “Compass Flip” Technique To End The Chase For Emotionally Distant Partners… And Finally Become Magnetic To Real Love

Without ever having to shrink yourself, silence your truth, or keep apologizing just to keep the peace.

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Nervous System Rewiring (Not Just Talk Therapy)

Ends Toxic Attraction Cycles Permanently

Stop Checking Your Phone Every 3 Minutes, Wondering If They Still Care…

You know that sinking feeling when they take 6 hours to reply to a text that took you 20 minutes to craft perfectly?

The way your stomach drops when they seem distant after an amazing night together?

The mental gymnastics you do, replaying every conversation, searching for clues about what you did wrong this time?

You're exhausted from being the one who always cares more…

Always walking on eggshells…

Always making excuses for their "bad communication" while your own needs get pushed aside.

What if this exhausting cycle could end in 90 days?

What if you could get over a breakup…

Clear the emotional debris from an insecure ex…

And finally attract partners who initiate plans, follow through on promises, and show up consistently…

Without you having to hint, ask, or manage their emotions?

Partners who lean in when problems arise instead of going silent.
Where your anxious spirals disappear because there's nothing to analyze…

And your energy returns because you're not constantly being their unpaid therapist.

You finally understand what it feels like to be fought FOR, not against…

To have someone match your energy instead of you always being "too much."

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Why The "Nice Guys" Feel Boring And The Toxic Ones Feel Like Home…

Here's the brutal truth: your body literally rejects the love you're desperately seeking.

That "boring" guy who texts back right away and makes solid plans?

Your nervous system screams "Where's the excitement?"

That emotionally unavailable person who breadcrumbs you for months?

Your heart pounds and you mistake that anxiety for "butterflies."

You've been addicted to the high of wondering where you stand…

Confusing the stress response with passion, chasing people who make you feel like you're not enough.

You've tried everything.

Therapy sessions where you analyzed your patterns until your brain hurt.

Self-help books that made you feel broken for wanting love so badly.

Friends rolling their eyes saying "You're too smart for this" while you explain away red flags again.

The worst part?

You KNOW better.

You can spot toxic behavior a mile away—in other people's relationships.

But when it's your heart on the line, logic goes out the window…

And you're back to checking their Instagram stories at 2am, wondering why you always end up with people who make loving them feel like begging.

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The 3-Level "Compass Flip" That Rewires Your Love Patterns At The Nervous System Level…

It doesn’t have to be this way.

The Compass Flip Technique works at three levels that traditional approaches miss.

  1. Level One (Emotional)

    Identifies the specific trauma patterns driving your choices - not just in your head, but in your body’s cellular memory. You’re going to have the tools to have power and control over your thoughts and emotions, rather than them having power and control over you, so you can RESPOND to life instead of REACT…

  2. Level Two (Expressive)

    Gives your nervous system new experiences of safety through somatic exercises, so calm love starts feeling natural instead of foreign. It Is all about the art of communication. Not just how others speak to you but how you talk to yourself. This is how we turn conflict into an opportunity for deepening connection with yourself and others.(to overcome SAID BLOCK & ACHIEVE GOAL)

  3. Level Three (Energetic)

    Anchors these new patterns so deeply that you automatically filter out unavailable people without conscious effort. Tools for nervous system regulation and somatic healing and from this place aligned your life with your values so you can effortlessly be your most authentic self. And when you’ve done this work, as within, so without, like attract likeness, you begin to meet other people who have done this work and can meet you MORE then halfway.

Unlike therapy that only addresses your thoughts, or dating advice that only changes your behavior, this method rewires your body's fundamental definition of what love feels like.

When your internal compass flips, you stop chasing people who can't meet you and start attracting partners who fight for you, not against you.

Drama becomes exhausting instead of exciting.

Mixed signals feel repulsive instead of intriguing.

Emotional safety becomes magnetic.

You don't have to think your way into better choices - your body starts craving what's actually good for you.

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These High-Performing Empaths Broke Toxic Attachment Patterns In As Little As 90 Days…

I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciated the call today. Your energy is so warm and beautiful.🙏🏻💞

I took away some great advice on that call; a light bulb moment. Thanks Greg! ❤️

I want to honour that feeling. Greg, I know I told you before but here again: thank you for putting yourself out in the world like this, I m so happy I found you because the past 3 months have been life changing. And you know I will keep on practising daily. Not a doubt about that 🤩

Hey, Greg, I just want to tell you how perfect you are at what you do. Your insight, intuition, and genuine heart for people situates you perfectly to help HSPs. I know from the one on one attention you gave me how tremendous your program is. I made more progress in the last two months than I could've in two years on my own. Thank you, so much. 💯️❤️

I want to honour that feeling. Greg, I know I told you before but here again: thank you for putting yourself out in the world like this, I m so happy I found you because the past 3 months have been life changing. And you know I will keep on practising daily. Not a doubt about that 🤩

I am just so grateful for what I am learning about myself and the tools are am getting are fucking working !!!!💯👍🏻🙏🏻👏🙌

Thank you for creating a welcoming space for me to share from my heart. It was nice to see more people on the call today. I hope my vulnerability helps others to feel comfortable to share as well. It is why we are all here; to draw the curtain and reveal who we truly are - people without fear, shame etc 💯💯💯

Greg was my guide to finding my authentic self. His program was life changing and helped me love myself, probably for the first time in my life. 🙌

Releasing Ritual: wowza! Needed that...6 years ago...lol. Better late than never though! I listened/repeated it while in bed; but I plan to do it again, write it, & burn it because I'm familiar with the power those methods entail. Did you write that releasing ritual yourself? SO well written. I had a tear fall from reading it. Felt good. Look forward to doing the ritual! Thank you 🙏

Awesome, thank you so much Greg! I appreciate that! I really have enjoyed the sessions. I'm finding my thought process more aligned with myself and more accepting of the things I can or cannot control 🙌🏻🙌🏻

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“Love had destroyed me...
I thought I was unfixable. But the same pain that broke me helped uncover the nervous system secrets now freeing 65,000+ empaths from relationship hell.”

Hi, there.

I'm Greg Marino, certified relationship coach and founder of Self-Initiated Coaching.

Fifteen years ago, I was exactly where you are now.

I was stuck in the worst relationship of my life with someone who didn't really love me.

Every day felt like Groundhog Day, and I convinced myself this was what I deserved.

I was headed straight toward destroying my life completely.

I was headed straight toward destroying my life completely…

Caught up in destructive habits that undermined my self-esteem.

But then something shifted.

I started writing down my thoughts, putting pen to paper about the life I actually wanted to live.

I wrote about feeling empowered, being creative, connecting with nature, and helping others.

The very next week, I saw a photo of my friend in Cambodia who looked like he had found the freedom I was writing about.

So I listened to my intuition, bought a one-way ticket to India, then lived in Cambodia for almost two years studying creative art therapy and discovering the somatic healing principles that would transform my life.

When I wrote "I will find unconditional love" in 2017, I met my dream partner the following week.

That breakthrough led me to become a certified relationship coach and develop the methods that have now helped over 65,000 empaths and highly sensitive people break free from painful relationship cycles and finally attract the secure, reciprocal love they deserve.

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5 Reasons Why Self-Initiated Coaching Could Change The Way You Approach Relationships – Forever…

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3-Level Compass Flip Process:

The only system that rewires your love compass at emotional, expressive, and energetic levels so healthy relationships feel exciting instead of boring…

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Somatic Trauma Release:

We don't just talk about your patterns - we release them from your nervous system using body-based healing techniques that therapy can't reach…

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Post-Honeymoon Phase Focus:

While others teach you how to fall in love, we teach you how to stay in love and deepen intimacy after the butterflies fade…

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90-Day Transformation Guarantee:

Structured progression from survival mode to self-secure with measurable milestones - or every cent refunded if you don't feel completely different than day one…

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Designed specifically for highly sensitive people who feel deeply and need tools that honor their emotional intensity without numbing it…

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“Six Months Later And Now I Am Happy And Confident”... Hear From Coaching Graduates…

I was able to recognize my power and bring it back to where it belongs within me

Shawn

I feel like I have more control, and having more control helps me with my day better.

Shana

"And so being able to get into a more positive mindset. Yeah. I start every morning with that question, who am I becoming?"

Andrew

I’ve become far more aware of what I need physically, spiritually, and emotionally, and I’m finally seeing how all of those parts of me are deeply connected.

Mandy

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The Disturbing Truth About "Chemistry" That Dating Experts Won't Tell You…

What you've been calling chemistry is actually your nervous system recognizing familiar trauma patterns. When someone pulls away, doesn't text back, or keeps you guessing, your body floods with stress hormones that feel like excitement. Your system learned early that love comes with anxiety, so now emotional unavailability feels like "the spark" while consistency feels flat and boring.

Dating coaches tell you to "trust your gut" without realizing your gut has been programmed to crave dysfunction. They teach you to look for chemistry without explaining that real chemistry comes from safety, not chaos. The partners who make your heart race are triggering your fight-or-flight response, not genuine attraction. True chemistry happens when your nervous system feels safe enough to actually connect, not when it's scanning for threats disguised as romantic tension.

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What You Get in Your 12-Week Self-Initiated Program…

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Expert Coaching with Greg Marino

Direct access to a certified trauma-informed coach who's worked with 65,000+ empaths, highly sensitive people, and self-aware high-performers to transform their attraction patterns permanently…

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Weekly 90-Minute Live Group Calls

Personal coaching attention within a supportive group setting where you get both individual guidance and community connection…

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Private Community Access

Ongoing support with other Self-Initiated graduates, plus submit questions anytime even if you can't make live calls…

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Your Personal Healing Library

Every breakthrough technique, assessment, and healing exercise I've developed over the past decade…

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Lifetime Access to Everything

All recordings, materials, and future program updates forever so you can revisit the transformation whenever you need it…

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"Every time I've sat down to do the course work it's exactly what I was asking the Universe for guidance with. I remember when I was going through the breakup I knew I needed to do a releasing ritual and the course releasing ritual was SO GOOD!"

Whitney

Self-Initiated Coaching Client

Your Life With Old Patterns vs. Your Life After Self-Initiated Coaching

BEFORE (Old Patterns)

Constantly overthinking every text message and analyzing their tone

Saying yes when you mean no, shrinking yourself to avoid conflict

Giving everything while getting crumbs back from emotionally unavailable partners

Feeling "too much" when you express needs or "not enough" when they pull away

Drama and chaos feel exciting; calm relationships feel boring

Making excuses for partners who promise change but never deliver

Your boundaries are suggestions that get ignored

AFTER (Self-Initiated)

You trust your gut feelings about people immediately and stop second-guessing yourself

Setting boundaries without guilt because protecting your energy feels natural

Attracting partners who fight for you and match your emotional investment

Feeling grounded in your own worth so you stop chasing validation

Drama feels exhausting; emotional safety feels exciting and sustainable

When someone shows you who they are, you believe them the first time

Your boundaries are non-negotiable rules that get respected

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"The last presentation you did was EXACTLY what I needed to hear because I beat myself up a lot when it comes to feeling not good enough and striving for perfection. I took a lot away from this, I know now that I am okay to feel everything at once. I've never given myself the time, the patience or the love that I give to others. Thank you so much Greg!"

Whitney

Self-Initiated Coaching Client

From Anxious Attachment To Secure Love: Your 3-Step Transformation Timeline…

Step 01

Book Your Free Breakthrough Call:

In just 45 minutes, we'll uncover the hidden patterns in your nervous system that keep pulling you toward emotionally unavailable partners. You'll walk away with your personalized "Love Reset Plan" and finally understand why you keep repeating the same cycles. Most clients say this single call gives them more clarity than months of therapy.

Step 02

Begin Your Compass Flip Journey:

If we're a good fit, you'll start the 12-week Self-Initiated program where we rewire your love compass at the emotional, expressive, and energetic levels. Within the first week, you'll notice yourself catching people-pleasing patterns before they happen. By week 2, drama will start feeling exhausting instead of exciting.

Step 03

Attract Your Secure, Reciprocal Love:

As your nervous system recalibrates over 90 days, you'll naturally filter out unavailable people without effort. You'll feel both safe and excited in relationships because you've broken the intensity-equals-love loop. Partners who once would have triggered your chase response will feel boring, while emotionally mature people will feel magnetic and right. Present trauma from past relationships will heal and transform.

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100% Money-Back, 90-Day Attraction Guarantee

It takes 21 days to build a habit, 60 days for it to be routine and 90 days for it to stay permanently embedded into your lifestyle. In 90 days, we take you from survival mode to self-secure by rewiring your brain’s patterns and resetting your nervous system so you stop chasing or creating chaos, start trusting calm, and finally choose partners from a place of clarity instead of fear. Here’s how it works:

In 30 days you’ll become self-aware and feel safer - You’ll have “aha” moments like “I’ve been saying yes out of fear, not alignment.” You begin noticing when you’re about to self-abandon or over-give before it happens.

In 60 days you’ll repattern & reclaim your true self - You’ll finally experience moments of being “in your body” instead of trapped in your head. You’ll stop chasing chemistry that burns out quick and start being drawing to stability

In 90 days you’ll attract true love and repel what you once thought was love - You naturally filter out emotionally unavailable partners without effort. You feel both safe and excited in relationships, because you’ve broken the intensity = love loop that traps you in false love.

If you don’t find yourself in a better state than your first day of working with me personally, I’ll refund every cent. Guaranteed.

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These High-Performing Empaths Broke Toxic Attachment Patterns In As Little As 90 Days…

Exactly What I Needed: Divine Timing, Healing, & Authenticity

Every time I’ve sat down to do the course work it’s exactly what I was asking the Universe for guidance with. I remember when I was going through the breakup I knew I needed to do a releasing ritual and the course releasing ritual was SO GOOD! Every single thing in the lesson about authenticity and letting go completely rang true with what I was experiencing and where my fears were. It helped me realize why I have fears about being my authentic self - I felt called to do SELF-INITIATED and when I got into it it was EXACTLY what I needed

Whitney

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Letting Go Without Guilt: Choosing Peace for Myself

Thank you! I feel like it is a big breakthrough. I want to be accountable to myself to not backslide this time. I genuinely feel so much more at peace and open and safe when I remove him from my life. I don’t have this weird inner resistance when I kindly close the door to him. So whatever that means, I know that it’s the right thing to do from now on. I’m not malicious or being mean to him. I’m choosing to let go. And I’m allowed to. I need to stop explaining or justifying what I need to anyone. Only me.

Shana and Mark

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Thank you for sharing

The 'before self-initiated' girl would be understanding and let it happen 100 times.The 'after self-initiated' queen would let it happen once and take note of/feel into the behaviour afterwards. That queen is worth

Karen M.

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Exactly What I Needed: Divine Timing, Healing, & Authenticity

“Every time I’ve sat down to do the course work it’s exactly what I was asking the Universe for guidance with. I remember when I was going through the breakup I knew I needed to do a releasing ritual and the course releasing ritual was SO GOOD! Every single thing in the lesson about authenticity and letting go completely rang true with what I was experiencing and where my fears were. It helped me realize why I have fears about being my authentic self - I felt called to do SELF-INITIATED and when I got into it it was EXACTLY what I needed”

Whitney

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Letting Go Without Guilt: Choosing Peace for Myself

Thank you! I feel like it is a big breakthrough. I want to be accountable to myself to not backslide this time. I genuinely feel so much more at peace and open and safe when I remove him from my life. I don’t have this weird inner resistance when I kindly close the door to him. So whatever that means, I know that it’s the right thing to do from now on. I’m not malicious or being mean to him. I’m choosing to let go. And I’m allowed to. I need to stop explaining or justifying what I need to anyone. Only me.

Shana and Mark

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Thank you for sharing

The 'before self-initiated' girl would be understanding and let it happen 100 times.The 'after self-initiated' queen would let it happen once and take note of/feel into the behaviour afterwards. That queen is worth

Karen M.

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UPDATE: 4 NEW SPOTS REMAINING IN :

Claim Your Free 45-Min Breakthrough Call And We’ll Help You Uncover 3 Hidden Patterns That Keep You From Attracting The Love You Truly Deserve

I’ve only got 24 hours a day, and I personally spend hours preparing for these calls. If you’re serious about attracting a partner that truly values you, here’s what you’ll discover on this call:

  • We’ll uncover the hidden pattern in your nervous system that keeps pulling you toward emotionally unavailable partners and show you exactly how to break it.

  • We’ll map out the one boundary shift you need to stop over-giving in love and start attracting relationships that actually meet you halfway.

  • We’ll give you a personalized “love reset plan” to rewire your brain and body for secure love in the next 90 days without saying ‘yes’ to a different version of your ex.

  • And much, much more!

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Heads Up: Only 4 Breakthrough Call Spots Left This Month (And The Price Of Waiting Another Year)

I only have 24 hours in a day, and I personally spend 3+ hours preparing for each breakthrough call to give you insights tailored specifically to your situation. That means I can only take4 new breakthrough calls per month, maximum.

Here's what I need you to understand: every month you stay stuck in these patterns is another month of your life spent chasing people who can't love you the way you love them. Another month of questioning your worth, giving everything and getting crumbs back, wondering if you're destined to repeat the same painful cycles forever. You've already invested years and thousands of dollars trying to fix this - how much more time are you willing to lose hoping it will magically change on its own? Your breakthrough call is completely free, but the cost of staying stuck is everything. Don't let this be the moment you look back on and wish you'd acted. Click the button below and let's flip your compass together.

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